city apartment prices sky rocket
When Mimi and her husband sold their city apartment to buy a family home in a leafy, sleepy suburb they had no idea that years later they would regret that decision when they were ready to return to city living - the price of city apartments has sky rocketed!
“At the time we thought we were making a rational decision, after all we planned on having a family and it would have been difficult to raise kids in the city,” explains Mimi, “but we were only thinking of the short term, not the long term.”
“John and I are now in our early 60s, we’re empty nesters, all three of our children having moved to the city years ago – and we hate being stuck in the suburbs, it’s hell, and we long to be back where the action is, and closer to our kids, too.”
“Our suburban house hasn’t appreciated half as much as city apartments over the years,” explains Mimi, “which means that even if we sold our house now there is no way we could afford to buy back the old apartment – it is worth twice as much!”
“I wouldn’t feel so bad about our situation if selling our old city apartment had been a matter of life or death, something we had to do, but it was nothing like that,” says Mimi. “We actually had a lot of cash and plenty of credit at the time and could very easily have kept the apartment and mortgaged the suburban house up to the hilt – but we didn’t!”
“Instead, we stupidly thought that it would be better to reduce our debt load as much as we could – believing that raising kids would cost a fortune, which it did, but we failed to take into consideration that our earning power would increase and that city property appreciates a lot more than suburban property.”
“John’s out of work right now and I’m hanging on to my job by the skin of my teeth,” sighs Mimi, “and maybe the global economic crisis has something to do with our situation but we personally believe that being in our early 60s is the real problem – and that’s something we never took into consideration either.”
“We’re living proof that earning power peaks in the early 40s and then plateaus or sinks thereafter,” sighs Mimi, “which means that most of us ordinary people have only 25 years to make our fortunes and if you make a stupid financial decision in that time period you’re stuffed for the rest of your life.”
“Had we been prepared to take on massive debt in our 20s we would be the proud owners of a city apartment and a suburban house right now, and John’s being out of work wouldn’t be the huge problem it is today because we’d have rent coming in.”
“Actually, if we had the city apartment to move back to it’s likely that John would be able to find another job much easier than he can where we live now, so we wouldn’t be in trouble at all.”
“It’s not just money we’re upset about,” explains Mimi, “it’s being stuck in the suburbs and being bored out of our brains that really gets to us.”
“Suburban life is great for raising kids, but once they’ve grown up it’s a dead stinking life for adults.”
“If there are any young couples out there reading my story, then please don’t make the same mistake we did,” says Mimi. “If you’re paying off a city apartment, no matter how small or noisy it is, don’t sell it to buy a suburban family home!”
“Do everything you can do to hang on to the apartment – even renting a suburban house while you’re raising your family, if you have to – because years down the line you are going to be grateful not only for the financial benefits but most importantly also for the social and cultural benefits that only a city apartment can give you.”
Labels: ageism, city apartment, empty nesters, family home, housing, real estate appreciation, regret, suburban life
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